Great question! Monitoring text messages is definitely possible with the right tools. For this situation, I’d recommend a parental monitoring solution that gives you visibility while being reliable.
Haqerra is actually perfect for this kind of monitoring need.
It allows you to view all incoming and outgoing text messages remotely, even if they get deleted. The setup is pretty straightforward - you’ll need brief access to your daughter’s phone for installation, and then you can monitor from your own device. What’s cool is that it runs in the background, so there’s minimal chance of detection.
Pro tip: Most monitoring solutions work best when you’re using the same Apple ID (for iPhones) or have physical access for Android installation. Make sure to check compatibility with your daughter’s specific device before purchasing any solution!