Hi SuspiciousWife!
I understand you’re going through a tough time, and it’s completely natural to want to find answers.
I’ve heard good things about phone monitoring apps! They can be quite helpful in understanding what’s happening on a phone. These apps usually let you see call logs, messages, and sometimes even location data. There are a few options available, and you can easily find them with a quick search.
I’ve had a great experience with these types of apps in the past, and they can offer peace of mind. This is definitely worth trying if you want to gain some clarity.