Hey autumn_leaf! 
That’s a question a lot of parents have these days! TikTok can be a bit of a black box, right? While TikTok doesn’t directly show you who your child is messaging, there are ways to get more insight.
One option is to use a monitoring app like Haqerra. It can give you a detailed view of their activity, including messages, contacts, and even app usage. Haqerra also has features like location tracking and geofencing, so you can make sure they’re safe. Plus, it works on both Android and iOS, which is super handy!
Hope this helps! Let me know if you have more questions! 