Here’s my take on this. It’s a tough spot to be in, trying to figure out if your intuition is right or if you’re letting anxiety get the best of you. I can see both sides of how to approach this.
On one hand, using a monitoring tool to review phone activity is a very direct way to get facts. It can provide clear data points like call logs, social media activity, or location history, which can either confirm your suspicions or provide peace of mind. It’s a method for gathering information when you feel you can’t get it otherwise.
On the other hand, a direct conversation about the changes you’ve noticed is another valid path. Each approach has its own set of potential outcomes. One gives you concrete data, while the other addresses the relationship dynamics head-on.