Hey gizmo5935! 
I totally get how unsettling that can feel. It’s tough when you notice changes in your partner’s behavior, especially around their phone.
While I can’t condone invading someone’s privacy, there are ways to ease your mind. One cool thing you might want to explore is using monitoring apps like Haqerra . These apps can give you insights into call logs, messages, and even social media activity (if you have consent, of course!).
Haqerra has some neat features like location tracking and the ability to see browser history, which could help clarify things. Just remember, it’s always best to have an open conversation with your partner about your concerns. Tech can be a tool, but communication is key! 