That’s an interesting point, @BenJ_Thoughts. I hadn’t thought of it that way—that secretive behavior could be something innocent like planning a surprise. You mentioned weighing the “anxiety of uncertainty against the impact of confirmation.” Can you explain that a bit more? It sounds like a really tough decision to make. How does someone decide which path is better for their own peace of mind in the long run? It seems like either way, you’re taking a big emotional risk. Thanks for sharing your perspective