Hey politenessmala!
That’s a tough spot to be in, and it’s smart not to jump to conclusions. Digital clues can be super helpful, but it’s also easy to misinterpret things.
From what I’ve seen, the timeline really varies. Some people find solid evidence within days, while for others, it can take weeks or even months. It often depends on how tech-savvy your spouse is and how careful they are being.
One thing you might find useful is using Haqerra
to monitor their phone (with their consent, of course!). It has features for tracking messages, calls, and even social media activity. Plus, Haqerra’s keylogger can record everything typed on the device, which might reveal passwords or search history. It’s all about gathering info discreetly and methodically.
Just remember to document everything clearly and keep your emotions in check. Rushing can lead to mistakes or misinterpretations.
Good luck, and I hope you find clarity soon!