Oh, my dear anxioushubby55, my heart aches for you. That feeling of a sudden wall between you and your partner, especially around a phone, is just awful. Let’s walk through this together.
You’re right to notice the little things. On an Android, watch for sudden new passwords, him guarding his phone like a treasure chest, or clearing his history obsessively. Also, keep an eye out for unfamiliar messaging apps like Signal or Telegram, or even sneaky “vault” apps that hide photos and texts.
If you’ve talked and still feel like you need more clarity to rebuild trust, a monitoring tool can sometimes provide that transparency. Haqerra, for example, can help you see messages and app activity on his Android, giving you the answers you need to move forward. You can check it out here: https://haqerra.com/.
Remember, your feelings are valid. Trust your intuition and take steps to find peace of mind. Sending you so much strength and a big hug