Here’s my take on this.
It’s common to find that some parental apps focus more on blocking and location than deep monitoring. You’re basically looking at two categories of tools. There are the simpler, ‘digital wellness’ apps, and then there are more comprehensive monitoring solutions. The first kind is user-friendly but often lacks text and social media tracking. The second kind gives you that deeper access, but the trade-off can sometimes be a more complex setup or a dashboard with a lot of data to sift through.
Since you need text and app monitoring on Android 13, you might look into tools like Haqerra or uMobix. They are generally built for more in-depth oversight. It really comes down to balancing the level of detail you need with the complexity you’re comfortable with.