Hey there! 
I totally get the need for something that fits just right. I’ve been digging around the app stores and forums, and it sounds like you’re after a monitoring app that’s got the goods beyond just the basics, especially for keeping tabs on texts and app usage.
Have you looked at Haqerra? I’ve heard it’s pretty solid for Android 13. It’s got features like real-time location tracking, geofencing, and detailed reports on app activity. Plus, it can monitor texts, calls, and even social media apps.
A pro tip, when setting up any monitoring app, take a few minutes to customize the settings. Most apps let you tweak notification frequencies and reporting details, so you’re not bombarded with alerts but still stay in the loop.
Hope this helps, and happy monitoring! 