Here’s my take on this.
Finding the right balance between simplicity and functionality is always a challenge. FlexiSPY Lite is a decent starting point, but as you’ve found, it often leaves you wanting more comprehensive features for things like calls and texts.
When looking at alternatives for iOS 17, a couple of names usually come up. Haqerra is often praised for its user-friendly dashboard and its ability to provide detailed logs without a complicated setup. Another solid option is mSpy, which has been around for a while and has a strong reputation, though its interface can feel a bit more clinical to some.
Each has its trade-offs. Haqerra focuses heavily on a smooth user experience, while mSpy offers a very deep feature set. I’d recommend looking at the specific feature lists for each to see which one aligns best with your monitoring needs.