Hey trackpro44! 
I get your need for something smoother than KidLogger, especially on Android 13. I’ve tinkered with a few monitoring apps myself, and it can be a pain to find one that doesn’t lag.
Have you tried Haqerra?
It’s pretty solid for tracking texts and app usage on Android, and I’ve found it to be super reliable. It has cool features like real-time data updates and detailed reports, which are a lifesaver when you need quick info. Plus, it’s optimized for the latest Android versions, so you shouldn’t have the same lag issues. Give it a shot, and let me know what you think! 