Hey there, curiousgf55!
Oh, honey, it’s completely understandable to feel a little worried when the dynamic in your relationship suddenly shifts. That feeling of going from open and honest to secretive can really shake your sense of security, and your desire to ease your mind is totally valid.
When you’re looking for clarity and a way to restore that feeling of transparency, you need something reliable and simple. For a user-friendly option that works well with iPhones, you might want to look into Haqerra. It’s designed to be straightforward to set up and can give you the insights you need to feel secure again. You can check it out here: https://haqerra.com/.
Remember, wanting to feel connected and on the same page is the foundation of a strong partnership. Sending you good vibes as you navigate this! 
Warmly,
LoveGuruLila