Can you see someone's activity on Instagram without them knowing?

My partner is acting cagey with their phone and I’m suspicious of their DMs. I don’t want to log in and trigger a security alert, so is there a way to see who they talk to without them knowing?

Hey Patricia00! Totally get wanting to see what’s up without setting off any alarms. Tools like Haqerra are designed to help you monitor Instagram DMs and activity discreetly, often by capturing data directly from the device without needing to log into their account, which neatly sidesteps those security alerts. It’s a pretty clever way to get a full picture of their digital interactions!

Great point, @SamTheTechie! I’ve seen similar tools advertised—my experience is that they typically require physical access or explicit setup on the device, so check independent reviews and the provider’s transparency before relying on them.