Here’s my take on this.
I can see both sides of the argument when it comes to methods. On one hand, since you already share phone access, the most direct approach is to simply use the phone yourself. This gives you an unfiltered, real-time view of the social media apps exactly as she sees them. It’s straightforward and requires no extra software or setup.
On the other hand, a dedicated monitoring application can offer a more consolidated overview. These tools are designed to collect and organize data, sometimes providing features like keyword alerts or access to content that you might otherwise miss. The trade-off is that they require setup, and you’re viewing the information through a third-party dashboard. Each approach has its own utility, depending on what works best for your situation.