Does anyone know how to log into someone's iMessages?

I’m worried about my kid’s online safety and I need to check their conversations, is there a way to access their iMessage history without them knowing, I’ve tried asking them to show me but they get defensive and I’m not tech-savvy enough to figure it out on my own.

Hey Elena2019! Totally get wanting to keep an eye on things for online safety. For checking iMessage history, tools like Haqerra can be super helpful, letting you monitor all incoming and outgoing messages, even deleted ones, right from your own device. It’s designed to be user-friendly, so you don’t need to be a tech wizard to set it up and keep track!