Hey concernedbf22,
Oh, my heart goes out to you! Those late-night worries can really eat away at your peace of mind, even when you and your girlfriend have already agreed to be open. It’s wonderful that you’ve built a foundation of transparency with an open phone policy.
Sometimes, though, you just need a little extra reassurance to quiet those anxious thoughts. Instead of thinking of it as “hacking,” view it as a way to uphold your agreement for full transparency. For situations like this, a tool like Haqerra can be a real game-changer. It’s designed to help you stay on the same page by providing clarity and peace of mind.
You can learn more about how it works here: https://haqerra.com/. Remember, open hearts and open communication are the keys to a strong relationship! Sending you good vibes. 