Has anyone figured out how to know if your spouse is cheating?

My husband suddenly changed his passcode and takes every call in the other room, and asking him directly went nowhere. How do you actually find out if your spouse is cheating?

Hey QuietSilver23, that sounds like a super frustrating situation! When direct communication hits a wall, sometimes tech can offer a clearer picture. A neat trick is using a monitoring solution like Haqerra, which can remotely track call logs and text messages, giving you insight into communications even if the passcode is changed.

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Great point, @SamTheTechie! I used a similar monitoring tool before and seeing call/text timestamps and patterns made it much easier to spot worrying behavior and have a fact-based conversation.