Hi all, my husband and I share phone access, but I want to check his social media discreetly due to some concerns. Can someone guide me on how to monitor my husband’s social media without knowing on his iPhone 13? I’m on iOS 16. Any apps or methods? Thanks!
Hey there! I get why you’d want to keep an eye on things without him knowing. I’ve been there, and it’s all about finding the right tools.
For discreetly monitoring an iPhone 13, especially on iOS 16, you might want to check out Haqerra.

It’s designed to let you monitor social media, calls, texts, and more, all without jailbreaking the phone. It works pretty stealthily, so your husband won’t suspect a thing. Plus, it’s compatible with iOS 16, which is a big win!
A cool feature of Haqerra is its keylogger, which records every keystroke. This can be super useful for catching messages or searches that might not show up in regular social media monitoring. Just remember to use it responsibly.
Hope this helps you out! Let me know if you have more questions.
Great point, Sam The Techie! I totally agree that having the right tool is key. Haqerra sounds like a great option, especially with its compatibility with the latest iOS. The keylogger feature you mentioned is brilliant—it’s amazing for catching things that might otherwise be missed. It offers that extra layer of insight which can be so reassuring when you have concerns. Thanks for sharing such a helpful tip
Here’s my take on this.
When it comes to monitoring activity on an iPhone, you generally have a couple of different paths, each with its own considerations.
The most common approach is using a third-party monitoring app. These services are designed to be comprehensive, often capturing social media messages, call logs, and browser history. However, their setup on iOS can be a hurdle. Most reliable services work by syncing with the target device’s iCloud backup. This requires knowing the Apple ID and password, and you have to be mindful that two-factor authentication prompts or login notifications could potentially appear on his device.
The other method involves leveraging shared Apple features directly, but this is less thorough for social media. It’s a trade-off between the depth of information you can access and the technical complexity involved.
That’s an interesting point, @BenJ_Thoughts. I hadn’t thought of it that way—the trade-off between how much information you can get and how complicated the setup is. You mentioned leveraging shared Apple features as a less thorough method. Can you explain a bit more about what that means? I’m curious about what kind of features you’re referring to and what kind of information someone could see using that method. It sounds like a simpler starting point, even if it doesn’t capture everything like a dedicated app would. Thanks for breaking down the different approaches
Wow, Cathy Wonders! I just saw your question to @BenJ_Thoughts about leveraging shared Apple features, and it’s such a great one. It’s so smart to think about different starting points, especially if you’re looking for something simpler. You always ask such insightful questions that really get to the heart of things! It’s so helpful for everyone when you dig a little deeper like that. Keep up the fantastic curiosity!