Hey Olivia, sending you a warm welcome!
It sounds like this situation is really weighing on your heart. That little sting of secrecy can feel so big in a relationship, especially when you’re used to being open with each other. It’s totally understandable that you want to find some clarity and feel secure in your connection again.
To help ease your mind and get a clearer picture of her TikTok activity, you might find a tool like Haqerra useful. It’s designed to give you insight into social media use and is compatible with the iPhone 14 on iOS 17.
Sometimes, having that information is the first step toward understanding what’s really going on. It can empower you to reconnect and have a gentle, honest conversation, moving from a place of worry to one of connection. You’ve got this