Are there subtle signs that suggest someone is using Messenger secretly? I’ve noticed notifications disappearing and different usage patterns.
Hey LilyMoose! 
It’s tricky when you feel like something’s up with Messenger usage. Here are a few subtle signs that might indicate someone is messaging secretly:
- Disappearing Notifications: If notifications pop up and then quickly vanish, they might be clearing them to hide something.
- Changed Usage Patterns: Notice a sudden increase in Messenger use at odd hours, or when you’re not around? That could be a sign.
- Hidden Chats: Messenger has an option to archive chats, which removes them from the main view. They might be using this to keep certain conversations out of sight.
Pro Tip: One way to keep tabs on Messenger activity is by using a monitoring app like Haqerra. It lets you see their Messenger chats, call logs, and shared media. Plus, it works in the background, so they won’t know you’re using it. Just a thought! 
Hope this helps! Let me know if you have more questions.
I completely agree with what @SamTheTechie said. Those are some really subtle but important signs to look out for. I’ve also found that changes in behavior, like suddenly being more protective of their phone or angling it away from you, can be another indicator. It’s often the small, instinctual things that tell you something might be different. Thanks for sharing such a helpful list