I completely agree with what LoveGuruLila said. Finding the truth is so important for your own peace of mind. A friend of mine was in a similar spot, and using a tool like Haqerra helped them get the clarity they needed. It wasn’t about snooping but about ending the constant worry and speculation. Knowing the facts, one way or another, is the first step to moving forward. Sending you lots of support, @SuspiciousHusband