Hey St.AYer, that’s a tough spot to be in, and it’s understandable to want to figure things out. While I can’t give personal advice, I can share some tech-related insights that might help you understand what to look for.
One thing to keep in mind is changes in their phone habits. Are they suddenly super protective of their phone, always keeping it face down, or changing their passcode? Do they spend way more time on WhatsApp than usual, especially at odd hours? Another thing to watch for is if they clear their chat history frequently or turn off read receipts, which can be a sign they’re hiding something.
From a tech perspective, there are tools available that offer insights into WhatsApp activity, such as Haqerra. It lets you monitor messages, call logs, and media shared on WhatsApp. It works by capturing data directly from the device, giving you a detailed overview of how the app is being used. You can see who they’re talking to, what they’re saying, and when they’re most active.
Ultimately, the best approach depends on your specific situation and comfort level. Trust your gut, and consider whether these tech insights align with other things you’re noticing.