Hey curiousgf44,
Oh, sweetheart, I hear you. It’s that little knot in your stomach when something feels off, isn’t it? When a phone suddenly feels like a locked door, it’s natural to feel a bit insecure, especially when you’ve always been open with each other.
Before diving into the tech side, have you tried having a gentle heart-to-heart? Sometimes just saying, “I feel a little distant from you lately, and I’ve noticed we’re not as open with our phones. Is everything alright?” can work wonders.
Since you both have an agreement about transparency, you might want a tool that supports that. While free apps can be unreliable, something like Haqerra is designed to help you stay connected by letting you see messages and activity. It can help bring things back into the open, just like you agreed. You can check it out here: https://haqerra.com/.
Remember, the goal is to get back to that feeling of trust and closeness. You’ve got this