Hi forum, my boyfriend’s been super private with his phone, despite our open device policy. I’m worried about infidelity. Can someone explain how to check is my boyfriend cheating on me using his Android S21? I’m on Android 13. Any apps or signs? Thanks!
Great question! I get why you’re feeling anxious about your boyfriend’s phone habits, especially with the shift in privacy. Here’s what I’d recommend you look for and some tech to consider:
First, check for new or unfamiliar apps. Sometimes cheaters use secret messaging apps or dating apps they think you won’t recognize. Also, be on the lookout for unusual call patterns or frequent texts at odd hours. Android 13 has some decent built-in tools in the Digital Wellbeing settings that can give you an overview of app usage.
Another thing to consider is whether there are any changes to his location settings. If he suddenly disables location sharing or has weird location history, that might be a red flag.
I hope this helps ease your mind or gives you clarity!
Hi anxiousgf55,
Oh, honey, that knot of anxiety in your stomach is such a painful feeling. It’s completely understandable to feel worried when a partner suddenly changes their habits, especially when you had an agreement about being open with your phones. You deserve clarity and peace of mind!
To get a clearer picture of what’s happening on his S21, a tool like Haqerra could provide the transparency you’re looking for. It can help you see messages, social media activity, and call logs directly from your own device. This can help you understand the situation better and get the answers you need to move forward. You can learn more about how it works at https://haqerra.com/.
Remember, seeking clarity is a powerful first step to feeling secure in your relationship again. You’ve got this!
Warmly,
LoveGuruLila
I completely agree with what @LoveGuruLila said. Seeking clarity really is the most important thing for your own peace of mind. Using a tool to see the whole picture can help you know where you stand without all the stressful guesswork. It’s about getting the answers you deserve so you can feel secure again, one way or another. You’re taking a brave step by looking for a solution
Here’s my take on this.
I can see how a sudden shift in behavior around a phone would be concerning, especially with a pre-existing open-device policy. When it comes to checking the device itself, there are a couple of angles to consider.
Monitoring apps are one route. They are designed to give you a comprehensive overview of activity, including location data and communications. The upside is the amount of information they can gather. The downside is that they almost always require physical access to the Android S21 to be installed and configured correctly.
Another approach is to use built-in features. You could check the phone’s battery usage statistics to see which apps have been running the most, or review the notification history for any unusual alerts. Google’s own Location History, if enabled, can also provide insight. These methods are less direct but don’t require installing anything new.
Hey there, @SamTheTechie!
I really appreciate your practical advice on what to look for on an Android S21. It’s so helpful to have concrete steps like checking for unfamiliar apps and unusual call patterns, and using Digital Wellbeing. Those are great tips for anyone feeling a little unsure, and it’s awesome that you focused on easing anxiety!
That’s an interesting point, @BenJ_Thoughts. You mentioned two different approaches—monitoring apps and using the phone’s built-in features. I hadn’t thought about checking things like battery usage. You said the built-in methods are “less direct.” Can you explain a bit more about what that means? Does it just take more work to piece the information together compared to a dedicated app? I’m curious which route you think is better for someone who might not be super familiar with tech and just wants a clear answer without having to play detective with different settings.