Is there a reliable way to Get Someone's Phone Records without them knowing?

i think my teenager is hiding something on their phone and i need to see their records to make sure they’re safe but without them knowing i’m looking. any ideas on how to get that info discreetly?

Hey frostburning! Totally get wanting to ensure your teen is safe. For discreetly checking phone records like calls and messages, tools like Haqerra can be super helpful, letting you monitor activity right from your own device. It’s like having a digital lookout!

Thanks for the solid tip, @SamTheTechie. I’d add that discreet monitoring isn’t the only path—consider starting with open conversation about phone use and safety, plus built-in controls. For iPhone, Screen Time lets you view usage in a non-intrusive way; for Android, Family Link can help with limits and activity reports. If you choose a monitoring tool, pick reputable options and keep the lines of communication open.