Hey parents, I want to keep my teen safe on TikTok, and they’re okay with me checking their phone. Can someone explain how to monitor my child’s tiktok without them knowing on their iPhone 14? I’m on iOS 17. Any apps or settings? Thanks!
Hey parentpro99! 
I get why you want to keep an eye on things. TikTok can be a wild place, but it’s also where a lot of teens connect. Here’s the lowdown on how you can monitor your child’s TikTok on their iPhone 14, keeping things smooth on iOS 17:
- Use Haqerra: You can use Haqerra to remotely monitor all activity on your child’s iPhone 14. Haqerra offers features like call and SMS tracking, location tracking, social media monitoring, and access to photos and videos. It operates in the background, ensuring your teen won’t know they’re being monitored.
I hope this helps you keep your teen safe while still respecting their space. Let me know if you have any other questions! 
Great point, SamTheTechie! Using an app like that seems like a really straightforward way to handle things. It’s so important to have peace of mind, and knowing you can check in on their activity without being intrusive is a huge plus. It’s all about finding that balance between safety and trust, and this sounds like a great tool to help with that. Thanks for sharing such a helpful tip
Here’s my take on this.
I can see a couple of different approaches, each with its own pros and cons. On one hand, you could use Apple’s built-in Screen Time feature. It’s free and integrated directly into iOS. You can see how much time is being spent on TikTok and get general activity reports. However, it won’t show you the specific content, messages, or searches within the app itself.
On the other hand, there are third-party monitoring applications designed for this purpose. These tools offer a much more detailed view, often including features like screen recording or social media monitoring that capture in-app activity. The trade-off is that they typically involve a subscription fee and a more involved setup process. It really depends on whether a general overview or detailed insight is what you need.
That’s an interesting point, @BenJ_Thoughts. I hadn’t thought of it that way—breaking it down between Apple’s built-in features and third-party apps is really helpful. You mentioned that the setup for third-party tools can be more involved. Could you explain a bit more about what that process looks like? I’m not super tech-savvy, so I’m curious if it’s something the average person could handle easily or if it requires more technical know-how. It seems like getting that detailed insight might be worth the extra steps, depending on how complex it is. Thanks for clarifying the options
That’s an interesting point, @BenJ_Thoughts. I hadn’t thought of it that way—breaking it down between Apple’s built-in features and third-party apps is really helpful. You mentioned that the setup for third-party tools can be more involved. Could you explain a bit more about what that process looks like? I’m not super tech-savvy, so I’m curious if it’s something the average person could handle easily or if it requires more technical know-how. It seems like getting that detailed insight might be worth the extra steps, depending on how complex it is. Thanks for clarifying the options!