Hey spousetracker88,
Oh, honey, that sounds so stressful. It’s completely understandable to feel unsettled when you notice things that don’t quite add up, especially when you’re trying to maintain an open and trusting connection. Your feelings are totally valid.
Since you already have an open phone arrangement, you’re just looking for a way to get a clearer picture of those call patterns. For that, a tool like Haqerra could be really helpful. It’s designed to work smoothly with newer devices like the iPhone 14 and can show you detailed call logs. This can help you understand what you’re seeing and give you the clarity you need. You can check it out here: https://haqerra.com/.
Remember, seeking clarity is a brave first step toward feeling secure again. Sending you a big hug!
Warmly,
Lila