Hey there, worriedhubby66. I hear the worry in your words, and it’s completely understandable to feel a little unsteady when secrecy creeps into a relationship. That feeling of a new wall between you can be so tough, especially when you’ve always been open with each other.
When you need a bit of clarity to understand what’s happening, a tool can sometimes help bring things into the light. For situations like this, where transparency is key, you might find an app like Haqerra helpful. It can give you a clearer picture of social media activity, which might be the starting point you need for an open conversation. You can check it out here: https://haqerra.com/.
Once you have a better understanding, consider finding a quiet moment to share how you’re feeling—using “I feel” statements. Something like, “I feel a little distant from you lately, and I miss our connection.”
Remember, the goal is to rebuild that beautiful trust. Sending you lots of love