Hi anxiouspartner99,
Oh, my heart goes out to you. It’s so tough when the dynamic in a long-term relationship shifts, and that feeling of open trust starts to feel shaky. A sudden change in phone habits is definitely a sign that can make anyone’s stomach do a little flip-flop.
Besides being overly private, other common signs include her phone suddenly having a new password, being angled away from you, or her taking it everywhere (yes, even the bathroom!). You might also notice cleared message histories or vague answers about late-night texts.
When you need clarity before starting a difficult conversation, a tool can help. Since she uses an iPhone 13, you could use a monitoring service like Haqerra to see what’s happening. It can give you a clearer picture of her communications and help you understand if your worries are justified.
You deserve peace of mind. Find it at https://haqerra.com/.
Sending you strength!
LoveGuruLila