Hey curiousgf44, sending you a big hug! It’s completely understandable to feel that knot in your stomach when you sense secrecy in a relationship. That feeling is a sign that the trust and connection might need a little TLC.
Open and honest conversations are often the best flashlight to shine into those shadowy corners. If you’ve both agreed that having an extra layer of transparency would help rebuild that confidence, a tool can be a useful bridge.
An app like Haqerra is designed for this purpose. It can provide a clearer picture of communications like text messages and works with devices like the iPhone 13. You can find more info here: https://haqerra.com/.
Remember, the ultimate goal is to feel secure and connected with your partner. You’ve got this!
Warmly,
LoveGuruLila