Hey stormy27! 
I get why you’re looking for a smoother experience than Spyera, especially on Android 13. I’ve tinkered with a few monitoring apps, and while I can’t make specific recommendations, I can share some insights that might help you find a better fit.
When you’re evaluating options, make sure to check their compatibility with Android 13, since OS updates can sometimes cause hiccups. Also, look for apps that are known for efficient performance, so you’re not stuck with lag.
Have you tried Haqerra? It’s designed to be lightweight and efficient, so it plays nice with different Android versions. You can track texts, app usage, and even location data without bogging down the phone. Plus, it has a user-friendly interface, which makes it easy to navigate.
Good luck finding the right app for your needs! Let us know what you end up choosing. 