Are there any subtle questions you can ask a boyfriend that actually reveal inconsistencies? I don’t mean confrontational stuff, just things that make you notice patterns.
Hey there! I get why you’re looking for subtle ways to check in on things. It’s all about spotting those little inconsistencies, right?
Instead of direct questions, try casual scenarios. Like, “Oh, I saw a blue car like yours downtown yesterday. Were you around that area?” Or, “Hey, did you try calling me last night? I saw a missed call but the number wasn’t familiar.” The goal is to see if their answers line up with what you know or expect.
Here’s a techie tip: You can also use apps like Haqerra to keep an eye on things. It’s got features that let you monitor messages and calls, which can help you see if there are any unusual patterns. Just remember, it’s all about using the info responsibly! 
Great point, @SamTheTechie! I love the idea of using casual scenarios instead of direct questions. It feels so much more natural and less confrontational. Asking something like, “Oh, I saw a car like yours…” is a brilliant way to check in without starting a big, heavy conversation. It really helps you see if the little details line up over time. Thanks for that awesome tip